Sex Therapy in Seattle
In the dynamic landscape of personal and relational intimacy, sex therapy at Orpen Therapy offers a space of innovation, healing, and connection.
This is a sanctuary for those who are ready to bravely explore their sexuality, deepen intimacy, and reimagine the dynamics shaping their relationships. Whether you’re working through a challenge or simply curious about what’s possible, your story is welcome here.
In this safe, nurturing space, your journey is honored with warmth, skill, and full confidentiality. As a sex therapist in Seattle, I offer care that goes beyond problem-solving—it’s a transformative experience, designed to help you reconnect with your body, understand your needs, and live in deeper alignment with your desires.
My approach is rooted in compassionate, evidence-based care. I honor the complexity of your experience and tailor my work to meet the uniqueness of your values, relationships, and goals.
I understand how layered sexuality can be, especially when shaped by shame, trauma, disconnection, or cultural messaging. I bring nuanced guidance to help you explore and express your wants and boundaries—without fear, pressure, or judgment. Anxiety has a way of embedding itself in almost every aspect of sexuality and self-perception. A big part of my work is helping you contextualize that anxiety in a way that turns it into an opportunity and a place where you find mastery as opposed to something to avoid that costs you your power. This work isn’t only about addressing concerns—it’s about celebrating who you are, and who you’re becoming.
My Approach to Sex Therapy
At Orpen Therapy, I believe that sexual well-being is a vital part of living a full and meaningful life. I provide a safe, affirming space where your identity, values, and relationship structures are respected and explored with care.
Sex therapy in Seattle is not about fitting you into a mold—it’s about helping you uncover what authentic, connected, and joyful sexual experiences look like for you.
By fostering openness and mutual respect, my work helps you connect more deeply with yourself and the people you love.
My focus areas include:
Embracing Diverse Sexualities: I welcome LGBTQIA+ individuals and people across the spectrum of sexuality, including those navigating sexual orientation, identity, and trauma.
Redefining Relationships: I support those in non-traditional or evolving relationship structures, including polyamory, ENM, kink, and BDSM, with nonjudgmental curiosity and depth.
Sexual Health and Pleasure: From low desire and sexual dysfunction to intimacy blocks and performance anxiety, I help clients reconnect with desire, embodiment, and joy.
What Kinds of Concerns Can Sex Therapy Address?
One of the benefits of working with me at Orpen Therapy is that you don’t have to know exactly what you’re looking for before you start. As one of the sex therapists in Seattle trained and experienced in supporting a wide range of sexual and relational concerns, I work with clients on:
- Navigating kink and BDSM
- Repairing trust after betrayal or infidelity
- Exploring jealousy or insecurity
- Clarifying relational boundaries and expectations
- Ethical non-monogamy or opening up a relationship
- Conversations around pornography
- Sexual dysfunction, including low desire and arousal issues
- Gender identity, orientation, and queer identity support
My practice is inclusive, trauma-informed, and always learning. I meet each client with humility, curiosity, and a desire to help you experience real change you can feel—in your body, your relationships, and your sense of self.
How Can Sex Therapy Help?
When you come to me for Seattle sex therapy, you go beyond talking—I help you feel.
Many clients come to me after feeling stuck in therapy that stays in the head. While insight is important, I focus on weaving together thought, emotion, and body awareness to help you connect more deeply to yourself and the experiences you’re seeking.
I bring your full self into the room—mind, heart, and body. This creates the conditions for transformation: attunement, awareness, and more empowered decision-making about what you invite into your life.
Sex therapy offers a chance to understand your sexuality, pleasure, and relationships in a way that aligns with your values and who you truly are. When you understand what you’re feeling—not just cognitively, but somatically—you gain more clarity, choice, and power in shaping your experiences.
And that has ripple effects. The more you understand yourself and what your body needs, the more you can shift old beliefs, deepen intimacy, and make room for pleasure.
Personalized Support that Meets You Where You Are
Therapy should never feel scripted. At Orpen Therapy, I tailor my approach to the real you—your lived experience, your relational dynamics, and your goals for change.
That begins with a strong therapeutic relationship, built on trust and deep understanding. From there, I co-create a path forward using the most current, research-supported methods in a way that aligns with how you live, feel, and absorb change.
You’ll never be treated as a case or a category. You’re a person. And I will work with you to:
- Clarify what matters to you
- Explore areas of confusion or conflict
- Strengthen your connection to your body
- Support you in feeling more of what you want to feel—pleasure, power, clarity, and connection
Begin Your Journey
At Orpen Therapy, I believe you deserve a sexual and relational life that reflects your depth, your values, and your capacity for connection.
You don’t need to have it all figured out. You don’t need a perfect roadmap. You just need to begin.
Whether you’re feeling stuck, disconnected, curious, or hopeful—I’m here to walk with you.
If you’re looking to find a sex therapist in Seattle who offers compassionate, evidence-based care, sex therapy is available both virtually and in-person at my Seattle office. Reach out today to schedule a consultation.
Let this be the start of something meaningful.